Can you afford to have natural hair? Ask yourself that before you transition

Every now and then, I do get asked questions by people about what it is like having natural hair. I have fun with protective hair styles such as braids and I think it’s all part of the fun of being natural.

Having natural hair is brilliant, wicked, fun and extremely expensive. This part is really not stressed in the glossy veneer of the natural hair movement – sometimes (to me), having watched the blog scene flourish so beautifully and I love that, I think the financial aspect of being natural has taken a back seat and it really should not.

Without disposable income to even make your own homemade ingredients for your hair, you cannot be natural. That’s why I want to ask anyone who reads this blog or anyone who is curious about going natural – can you actually afford your lifestyle as a natural? I realise me living in Tanzania for now means I can afford it every now and then depending on the cost of braiding. The cost of weaves here is up there with London & New York.

I’ve never tried glossy products such as Miss Jessie’s so I cannot make judgments on them, but I will say I really like some products from Dark & Lovely such as their treatment conditioners and the tingly scalp products from Dr Miracle’s and they definitely aren’t cheap.

So what I’d say to anyone who is natural or anyone considering to be natural is only do it if you can afford to have natural hair styles because it defintiely is expensive.

There is no point in my view having a gorgeous natural hair style if you cannot afford to pay off your debts/mortgage.

Millionaire Challenge Update #4

I need to be more aggressive. I earmarked a further £5 for the challenge. I know this is not really that aggressive but I am trying to be more focused about it.

It’s really difficult thinking about this challenge every day but it’s going to be the only way that I (think) can get there.

As in my third update, my totals put aside was £111.46. Adding the £5, I should now have £116.46 (I will call my bank to check but I sent the money via online banking so it should clear on Monday).

Total balance brought forward from my 3rd update: £1,299,888.54

-£5

Total current balance of money left to save: £1,299,883.54

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Business Notes: Why Tanzanian customer service leaves a lot to be desired

As I type, I am the Coco Beach bar at Coco Beach in Oyster Bay. I am going to be meeting up with my friend later for an evening of gossip & catch-up. I just asked for a Coke and ice.

They did not have ice. (Hold on, a bar that does that have ice???) Continue reading

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Millionaire Challenge Update #3

As in this previous update, I had £106.46 saved for my challenge.

Today, I put £10 in my savings account, of which £5 is allocated into my millionaire challenge. This means that the total in my fund is £111.46.

Total left to save for my millionaire challenge: £1,299,888.54

Still got a long way to go but I am happy that I am putting money aside day by day to reach my goal!

How do you reach your financial goals? Let me know!

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Business Notes: December 2011 Revenue Report – Still reeling from the loss of earnings from the break-up!

It is times like this when I am now kicking myself for falling off the business radar in July, August & September 2011!

In the spirit of transparency, I am going to creating frequent revenue reports to show you all how I am going in the scary world of trying to run businesses so you can earn a living!

Total revenue from all business ventures: ₤1,340.67 /$2,077.70)

December is normally a terribly difficult month to make money so a little cash did come in which is always good. I was making much more money in the first quarter of 2011 because emotionally I was doing well as I was not stressed because things were fine in my life and I met someone.

As you know, when the relationship crumbled, my finances crumbled in an instant because my business ground to a halt.

I’m never going to let a guy ruin my focus so my business actually crumbles. It’s going to take months and months to get back to my earning power from before but I am rebuilding my business revenues brick-by-brick. I don’t want to make excuses: I was emotionally a wreck for a good three months before autumn in which I barely worked and lived off my savings. Not a good look – now I have rebuilt my savings and I am doing more enquiries to ramp up clients as well as taking part in my Million Challenge.

What do you all think? Can personal problems affect how you work and therefore how much money you can make?

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Why was I treated badly in the bank as prospective business customer?

I went to two banks today: Stanbic Bank & Barclays Bank Tanzania.

I went there to enquire about specific business accounts that I am looking to get because I want to see if I can change the financial structure of my work so I can ramp things up.

Example 1

I get to Stanbic Bank in Mayfair Plaza in Mikocheni in the morning and there are hardly people there. I speak to the lady at enquiries about who I speak to about business accounts. I spoke to this young customer service executive and after ignoring me initially to the point where his supervisor was like ‘speak to the customer’, he then remembered that I was there – and we started talking.

I spoke to him and explained that I wanted to get a brochure on the business accounts that Stanbic provide because I want to see how fees work such as making international payments, receiving cheques or electronic payments.

He told me that their business accounts were for ”businesspeople”. Well that’s mindnumbingly clear – if I am coming to ask for a business account, why wouldn’t I be interested in a business account?

The result? - He gave me a sort of blank look and looked in the back office. Came back empty-handed to say that there are no business account brochures at that branch. Yes you heard me correctly – no business account brochures for prospective customers to look through so they can shop around for the best deal.

Needless to say I left empty-handed.

Example 2

After that Stanbic fail, I headed over to Barclays Bank Tanzania that also has a branch in Mikocheni. I waited for a while, the security guard seemed to know who to speak to rather than the cashier which points to who actually should be behind the withdrawal desk! Anyway, I then spoke to the business account liaison and needless to say, it was again terrible customer service. I asked him for all the things I would need (a laundry list trust me) to open a business account here and he gave me a sheet of paper from Barclays Bank that was covered with scribbles from annotations from a previous client.

I asked him: ”can’t you get me a new one?”

To which he said: ”We only have this one left – sorry, should I photocopy it for you?”

It is this lack of attention to detail that irked me. I need to have attention to detail to my work or I don’t get clients or worse, I could lose the ones I have. Why didn’t he think as the business manager at Barclays that he needed to get new checklists, not shitty ones with annotations on them.

The result? – After speaking to him, I just found him to be a bit patronising and lazy. With such a huge lack of attention to detail for prospective customers who are clearly shopping around (he also did not know account fee charges for their business accounts), what is the point going with such a shit presentation?

Verdict: I am wondering whether they would have treated me like this had I been wearing a Rolex, a suit and if I had a swinging dick. Honestly, why are prospective customers treated badly in some banks. Does it matter that I am a woman with a business or in traditional societies such as Tanzania, is it really the men who are taken seriously?

What do you think?

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Do you stick to your daily budget?

Yesterday, I assigned a budget for myself in order to start making some serious changes to my life.

20,000 Tanzanian shillings (£8/$12) for the day

  • 1,700 TZS: sending a letter to my bank (I walked to the post office to save transport money)
  • 800 TZS: An auto-rickshaw back home
  • 2,000 TZS: Phone credit
Total: 4,500 – this left 15,500 left over which I did not use so I rolled that amount over onto today.
How do you encourage yourself to stick to your daily budget?

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Hair Update: Let Your Hair Breathe

Sometimes you have to let your hair breathe and that’s exactly what I did last week. I took out the yarn braids and did a deep condition that I left in for about 3 hours. For my deep conditioner mix I used Jane Carters “Nutrient Replenishing Conditioner” and added Coconut oil, Jojoba oil, Apricot oil and lastly Argan oil. I wore my hair twisted for about 3 days and then twisted out for next 2 days. Once the cold winds hit my scalp and I was no longer able to stand it I returned to my yarn twist.

 

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What do you do if your friends are judgmental about your money?

I think as we get deeper into our working lives, money tends to crop up more in external relationships such as friendships. I never really thought about the effect money has on relationships but as I am getting older, I am realising it does have an effect.

How occupation colours my view on money

I am now a debt marketing specialist which means I help companies, small businesses who work in the debt markets such as the loan & mortgage industry come up with copywriting & marketing strategies to attract more customers/consumers/clients. Because I read about debt, mortgages, money management and general credit market news everyday, I am becoming used to the idea that money is critical in how people live their lives.

How I think friendships can be affected by money

I do believe that the friendships which are meant to last in this life will last regardless of how much you earn. However, I definitely think there is a change in the tide with some of my friendships which are definitely becoming more affected by money in terms of comments.

I think you can tell a lot about a friendship judging by the types of comments friends give each other about shopping. Ask yourself this, do you have one friend who is commenting on how much your beauty/fashion purchases are, always in passing? Chances are, you probably have a friend who is affected by how you spend your money.

My personal view on it is I do not care whether my friend is buying a $1m Lamborghini, they are adults so I assume they have taken care of themselves and their dependents (if applicable) before buying the car. It’s not my place as a friend to say oh that’s so expensive but you are paying so much! If they have worked hard for it, they deserve whatever they want as long as it is not hurting anyone.

I think the moral of what I think here is – don’t count other people’s money especially your friends. Enjoy what each other has to offer in friendship and don’t let your friend’s purchases affect how you two interact.

Note: I am a little biased because I do love the idea of buying a Mercedes SLS AMG when I am all sorted out financially!

What do you think?

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